10 Little things that will keep you from fighting .

These tips go for both the husband and the wife.You are a team and together you both make it work.
I am 26 years old and have been married to my husband (30) for 6 years .Now we have 3 kids 9,5, & 3 months. The first 3 years we spent fighting all the time.Then one day I woke up and realized we could be happier.The main thing I realized was that we had to compromise in order to get what we wanted.My husband and I have a great relationship that is not perfect but we don't fight anymore. I will list some tips that will help prevent fighting with your spouse.

1. Compromise

2. Never ASSUME- instead ask

3.Take a breath before you start on one another

4.If you have kids give each other the night out , get a night out together( 2 Sat's are yours together , one sat hubby stays home with the kids and wife goes out and so on.

5.Always keep Sunday's for family time.

6.Make time for each other....even if it's just to say what's on your mind or what's been bothering you.

7.Listen when one talks

8. Always ask each other how there day was.

9.Always ask at least once a day " Do you need help or Honey do you need me to do anything for you?" This shows you care

10.Be creative in the bedroom.You would not believe how many husbands call the chat lines during the day.Some can't connect with their wives the way they wanted too ,so they try to do it over the phone with some one who will. Hey I don't have a great sex life but I listen to my husbands needs and try to accommodate him so he can have fun with me not some desperate house wife sitting at home on the phone because she's bored.Explore, try new things , wear something sexy even if you want the lights out he can feel what's on you!!!